Where dreams come true (and I don't mean at the Disney parks!)


Why do we drink four cups of wine or grape juice at the Passover Seder?  Unlike some of the more obvious and easy to remember symbols like the bitter herb for the bitterness of slavery or the charoset for the sweetness of freedom and its resemblance to mortar, the four cups are not one of the first symbols taught to children in school.  The most common explanation given is that the four cups represent the four promises that God made to the people of Israel in the Torah when foretelling our redemption from Egypt.  God says,

I will bring you out from under the burdens of the Egyptians, and I will rescue you from their bondage, and I will redeem you with an outstretched arm, and with great judgments, and I will take you to me for a people and I will be to you a God.  (Exodus 6:6-7)

There are, however, many other interpretations of why we drink four cups.  Having so many interpretations to choose from makes our tradition rich and accessible to all of us.  This year I learned a new interpretation when preparing grape-juice  during a wine making activity for our Religious School students.  The interpretation is that the four cups refer to the four times the word “cup” is mentioned in the dream that Joseph interprets for Pharaoh.  In the story leading up to the time of our slavery in Egypt, Joseph, the favored son of Jacob, is sold into slavery to Egyptians by his jealous brothers.  Joseph rose to power in Egypt for many reasons, but one of those reasons was that he was a gifted dream interpreter. 

While Joseph was in Egypt he was falsely accused of a crime and put in the dungeon where he met Pharaoh’s cup-bearer and baker.  He interpreted a dream for each of them.  Joseph interpreted the cup-bearer’s dream to mean that he would be let out of the dungeon and restored to his former post.  This is indeed what happened, and when the cup-bearer later heard that Pharaoh needed a dream interpreted, he told Pharaoh that Joseph was a gifted dream interpreter and this led to Joseph’s release from incarceration.  Midrash Rabbah teaches that Joseph really received a second  interpretation of the cup bearer’s dream from God, one that had nothing at all to do with the cup-bearer, but rather had to do with Israel’s redemption from Egypt:

AND THE CUP-BEARER TOLD HIS DREAM... BEHOLD, A VINE WAS BEFORE ME (XL, 9): this alludes to Israel, as it says, “You plucked up a vine out of Egypt.” (Ps. LXXX, 9). AND IN THE VINE WERE THREE BRANCHES-Moses, Aaron, and Miriam. ITS BLOSSOM SHOT FORTH-the redemption of Israel had blossomed AND ITS CLUSTERS BROUGHT FORTH RIPE GRAPES: immediately the vine budded, it blossomed, and immediately the grapes blossomed, its clusters became ripe.   AND PHARAOHS CUP WAS IN MY HAND. On what grounds did the Sages institute the four cups of Passover? . . . R. Samuel b. Nahman said: In allusion to the four cups mentioned in our text: AND PHARAOH'S CUP WAS IN MY HAND; AND I TOOK THE GRAPES, AND PRESSED THEM INTO PHARAOH'S CUP, AND I GAVE THE CUP INTO PHARAOH'S HAND AND JOSEPH SAID TO HIM, THIS IS THE INTERPRETATION OF IT;THE THREE BRANCHES ARE THREE DAYS;
AND WITHIN THREE DAYS PHARAOH WILL LIFT UP YOUR HEAD, AND RESTORE YOU TO YOUR PLACE; AND YOU WILL DELIVER PHARAOH’S CUP INTO HIS HAND AFTER THE FORMER MANNER WHEN YOU WERE HIS BUTLER. (XL, II, 13). . . . He [Joseph] said to him: “You have given me good tidings, so will I too give you good tidings”: WITHIN THREE DAYS, etc. (Midrash Rabbah - Genesis LXXXVIII:5)

In this Midrash we see that the interpretation that Joseph receives from God really is about the good things that are coming to Bnai Yisrael, not about the good things that are coming for the cup-bearer.  At the end of receiving his prophesy from God, the midrash seems to suggest that Joseph decides to give a positive interpretation to the cup-bearer too, in order to thank him for his kindness in bringing good news to Joseph about the fate of the Israelites. 

Does the dream interpreter have power over the meaning the dream will have?  Did Joseph really “choose” to give a good interpretation to the cup-bearer because of his gratitude to God for the good portent from the cup-bearer’s dream?  Do we sometimes see signs and symbols around us that can be interpreted as portents for good or for bad?  Do we have the power to interpret these as we wish or is fate fixed?  I would suggest that based on the midrash above that we do have a great deal of power to  influence our futures depending on what kind of outlook we have.  The Midrash brings us some interesting beliefs about the way dreams work in this selection.  It is based on the concept of Joseph’s interpretation being accurate.  The cup-bearer told Pharaoh regarding his (the cup-bearer’s dream) that “as he [Joseph] interpreted to us, so it was.”  Does that mean that the dream has only one proper interpretation and that Joseph was able to divine it?  Or does it mean that the dream follows the interpretation?

AND WE TOLD HIM... AND IT CAME TO PASS, AS HE INTERPRETED TO US, SO IT WAS (XLI, 13). A certain woman went to R. Eliezer and said to him:  “I saw in a dream how that the loft of the upper story of my house was split open.”  “You will conceive a son,” he told her. She went away and it happened just as he said. Again she dreamed the same and came and told it to R. Eliezer, who gave her the same interpretation, and it happened just as he said. She dreamed this a third time and returned to him but did not find him, so she told his disciples, “I saw in a dream that the loft of the upper storey of my house was split open.”  “You will bury your husband,” they told her, and this did happen. R. Eliezer, hearing a cry of wailing, asked what was amiss.  They related to him what had occurred. “You have killed the man,” he upbraided them; is it not written, AND IT CAME TO PASS, AS HE INTERPRETED TO US, SO IT WAS?

It is a powerful idea to suggest that the signs and portents we see, whether in real life or in dreams can influence our lives through our thoughts about them.  To a certain degree, our attitudes and beliefs shape our experiences.  The other morning, the first thing I saw on my way to work was an ambulance rushing to the hospital.  “Great,” I thought, this is not a good sign to start the day with.  I tend to see things in patterns around me. For example I will have two people mention the same book in a week’s time—a book that I haven’t thought about for years.  Or I will have people enter my life around the same time who are all left handed or all share the same birthday week.  These things may be taken to be coincidences.  If you are superstitious or spiritual, like me, you might think there is no such thing as coincidence.

If we insist on ascribing meaning to signs around us, whether in our dreams or in our waking lives, we owe it to ourselves to interpret for the good.  Not every sign or dream is going to be a good one, but there is usually some lesson that can be learned which will help us on our journey.  Just as the word “cup” is mentioned four times in the Torah story about the cup-bearer’s dream, we often come across things in our own lives that keep hitting us in the face metaphorically until we pay attention to them.  When we do, it is my hope that like Joseph we can see the redemption hidden within and use the positive messages to celebrate not only our own blessings but bring blessing to those around us as well. 


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